“I got into vintage clothing because I loved watching musicals with my mom. Her favorites were Gene Kelly and Fred Astaire. I loved their clothes and how they fit, so I started buying vintage men clothes, the vests of the 40’s and 50’s and cashmere sweaters. The thrift stores were unbelievable. I got into selling the clothes when I was working at an aviation company and they laid everyone off on the day we were supposed to get paid. They didn’t pay us but told us where the food stamp office was and that the office knew we were coming. That was a kick in the gut. I took some of the coats I had to a barber shop and sold my first coat for $55. After that, I sold to beauty salons and barber shops but still worked at other jobs. I moved back home in 2005, after my mom passed, and decided to go for it. I started selling online and got a space in Cotton City. It was slow there but blew up at Antiques at the Loop. I knew then I could make a living doing this. It was feast or famine, but it didn’t matter because I loved it, even when it was famine. I had no intention of having a store because it pulled away from my freedom and my time to hunt clothes. I go to a thrift store and touch every piece there.”
“I depend on my faith for everything. It has gotten me through hard times. I was once evicted and I didn’t have a place to live. I survived and knew I had to go through hard times to get stronger. People I respect made it because of their hard times, so I made that part of my bucket list. I knew being evicted was part of me moving forward and learned so much from that time and speak of it with joy now. It took about a year and six months to get a place to live again. My cousin and her friend came to visit and they wanted to make vision books, cutting out pictures from magazines and taping them to construction paper as a collage of where we wanted our lives to go. I was the only one who did it, but it helped me focus everything. These are the things I wanted to be. I didn’t always have this faith. I had moved away from Mobile, but after I lost my sister and my mom, I lost my faith and moved back home. In 2006, I was at a restaurant with friends and a man looked at me and said God wants me to tell you to just trust him. He also told me some things that no one else would know. I started going back to church and going all out. One Sunday morning I was feeling so far behind everyone else and the preacher turned during the sermon and said, ‘God said you are not behind, you are ahead.’ She later prophesied that I would have a store. That was December 2006. I wrote it all down in mu journal. It is a constant thread of reassurance that nothing happens by happenstance. There is a plan.”
“I had moved all of my stuff into this building and was selling here, but I could tell the owner didn’t care about the business anymore and he asked me if I wanted it. At first, I thought he was trying to set me up. I took two weeks to think about it and was terrified, but I knew if I didn’t do this, I would always regret it. I apologized to God for my doubt and fears and signed the lease. It was the best thing I have ever done. I have been growing and learning how to treat people and trying out new ideas, some work and some don’t. I pray to God for this to be a place of respite where people relax and feel good and buy something and they tell other people about it. Then they walk in and say this is a place of respite and bring back their mom and friends. A lady at church told me God told me to give me her mini van and she gave it to me. That van was essential and came when I needed it. I gave away my Honda Civic. I had been praying for a way to advertise and then Lenny Kravitz came into the store in May. He was the perfect one. That man came in here and posted a picture with me on his Instagram. So many people have commented on that picture and people still come here because of it.”
“It feels good to make people happy and I still get emotional. I think this store is good for all of us and I am so excited about what is happening in Mobile. I lived in other places and that helped me appreciate this more. It is changing and moving forward and we are thinking about what is good for Mobile. We aren’t as behind. People come here from across the country and the world and I listen to them talk about the city. We have honest conversations and they didn’t expect Mobile to be like this. Mobile is in prime position. It is going to bust wide open, but we have to stay true to who we are and keep the heart of us and the regular folks in it. The everyday people are making this city and you can’t squeeze out the folks who created it.”
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