You don’t ever get over losing a child. This week is hard for me

January 3, 2017

“I was born and raised in Clarksdale. I was always the tallest girl in my class. It was weird growing up, but now I like it. I was one of the smart ones, too. I am two classes from my bachelor’s degree and want to get my masters and open my own business. My son, Jadarius, passed January 2nd three years ago. He was only twenty and he played football for Troy University in Alabama and he was getting ready to go pro and sign with the Atlanta Falcons, but he was determined to get his degree. He came home for the holidays and went out with a friend on New Year’s Eve and that is where the story gets sketchy. We don’t know what happened. I got a call the next morning and they said they found him in the road, he had been run over by a car. He was an engineer and math major and was very smart, but he loved football. He was spiritual and spent his summers at football camp and a Christian camp in Florida. I want to open the Jadarius Garner Total Achievement Center where kids can study and play sports and learn what they are good at. If all they see is the streets and the gangs and the shootings, that is all they are going to do. You have to give them something better.I was lucky my kids didn’t get involved in that. My oldest son went into the military and he is a police officer. A village raised my generation and a lot of us made it.”

“You don’t ever get over losing a child. This week is hard for me because I relive that morning over and over. There are days I can’t get out of bed. But this job helps me through. I meet so many interesting people. I got to serve Ozzy Osborne and he put me in one of his shows and I got to be in one of Morgan Freeman’s shows. I have gotten to know so much about Clarksdale and I get a chance to tell about my little town and be proud of it. We are more than fields here. Mississippi is so much more. The heritage, the history, the beauty. I love it in the summertime. My boss is also the mayor and he has brought this town a long way. Ground Zero is one big family and they help me through my hard times. My boy was my star and he is still my star.”

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