Once you find out what good self-esteem does, you want to spread it around like confetti

August 16, 2025

“Columbus is known as ‘The Friendly City,’ and at Quirky Antiques, you will discover why. 

My dog’s name is Senorita. When I adopted her, her name was PeeWee. I thought that was bad for her self-image. Would you want to be called PeeWee? I changed it to Senorita.

I grew up in Columbus, MS, on the Ten Tom Waterway. I was the youngest. My sisters were older, so I had a lot of time to myself. I rode my bike, hunted, floated down the river, and daydreamed. 

I graduated from Mississippi State in education and started out as a teacher. We found out there were a lot of dropouts, so we started a school just for them. You had to get kicked out of something to get into this school. That was right down my alley: good kids, but with poor self-esteem. Just like me when I was a boy. If you don’t see yourself as a success, you’re not going to be one. I did that for about 30 years.

I taught a course called I Can, based on Zig Ziglar’s book, See You at the Top. There was a lot of humor in it, too. God created me to do this. That’s my calling. Along the way, I also had an antique shop. Still do. I bust it up and fix it up. The 60s, 70s, and 80s were good years for antiques. I’m talking about golden oak and round oak tables. I don’t always know the history of every piece, but I can make something up.

When people ask where I get my merchandise, I jokingly say I steal all of this off little old ladies’ porches. There’s a craft to it—you can’t just run up there. Where I really get my stuff is a secret. It’s changing, though. Pinterest controls decorating now. Trends don’t last as long as they used to.

But it all still comes back to self-image—whether it’s kids in school or dogs. Once you find out what good self-esteem does, you want to spread it around like confetti.”

Fred

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